Coaching Brilliance
We all have our past, it is impossible to live life without remembering at least a little of what happened yesterday. But, when does that remembrance turn into an identification? What I have been experiencing recently has specifically been a type of miss-identification that comes from past experiences, a re-living of old dramas played out over and over again, subtly getting in the way of fully experiencing the present moment. My first reaction as a coach was to pull them out of the past and into the present. We live in such magnificent times, full of possibilities for growth and joy. Why would anyone want to live in a story that cannot possible be changed? I am reminded of something OSHO said about the Native Americans and what would have to take place for their full recovery and proper restitution paid back by the United States Government. He said, and I am a paraphrasing this, that the US Gov would need to fully give back 100% of their land, with full governmental rights and ownership. My first reaction to this bold statement was sorrow for the Natives Americans for such a loss at their opportunity to ever be whole again. I continued to sit with this idea for years, searching for a better solution. Recently, in a session I again was reminded how devastating past experiences can be to the experiencer trying to live in the present. It was as if their mind had decided to try and work out the kinks of pain in new situations that had nothing to do with past. I decided to go down the "rabbit hole" of the past in a coaching session and witness painful memories with the intention of searching for infinite morsels of energetic transformation. What I found was amazing! The client had all of these life changing situations that for whatever reason kept being played out again and again, or so they thought... What I had witnessed was specific situations for specific ages or steps of growth. Without going to far into the "story" of their past I dabbled around the emotions surrounding the situations. I might state that the client had expressed that they had seen specific roles replayed by that same sex over and over again. I, knowing full well that we are much more than a broken record wanted to see deeper into why they have chosen to replay these events over again with different people. What I intuitively saw was that they had not been re-living the same painful experience over, but had come to these situations for specific steps in their evolution of Beingness. Take for example, what had happened to them when they were 4 years old could not possible be exactly the same as when they were 14, nor when they then were 24, and again not when they turned 34. Each and every interaction was specifically experienced for a specific reason. At, the age of four they might have had a chance to see how to live in the role of living as a child coming into consciousness, say a "wake-up" call, and at 34, they might have repeated the same situational ingredients to help them step into their full power. Being a master of time-travel I decided to recommend my method to the client for the reason of finding the REAL reason behind the experience (note that this might be too painful for some - take caution). Here is what I recommended:
